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Mommy Survival Kit

A dear friend of mine is celebrating her birthday this week.  She is a busy mom with four active kids, so I was trying to figure out what would bless her the most.  Her mini-van is her 2nd home, so, I thought a van survival kit might come in handy.

This box was on sale at Michael's for $2.00.  Then I spent about $4.00 on stickers: alphabet with stars and cute insects (lady bugs, butterflies, dragonflies, etc.), plus a package of neat sayings (she and I collect fun and inspiring sayings, usually in plaque form - and that doesn't mean on our teeth).  I scattered the stickers on top and on all four sides.

The boys and I scoured Dollar Tree and came up with some great mommy emergency items, and I raided my own personal stash to come of with a box full of smiles: 

 

• Correspondence Items - encouragement notes, stamps, stickers
• Feed the Soul Items - New Testament, Gospel tracts, two small books full of short stories (each with a Bible verse)
• Office supplies/Tools - tape, glue stick, scissors, mini stapler, calculator, white out, pens, pencils, screw driver, sticky notes,
• Mommy 9-1-1 - silly string, "Bang" gun (pull the trigger and sign falls down that says "bang"), earplugs, sudoku book, $1 bill plus loose change, disposable plastic gloves
• Medicine - ibuprofen, 1 children's benadryl, cough drops, band-aids, antibacterial gel, tums
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  Personal Care Items - fingernail file and clippers, lotion, red lipstick, tissues, wisp (disposable toothbrushes), clear fingernail polish
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  Yummies - chocolate (of course!), tea bags, granola bar, coffee bags, mints

I've probably forgotten something, but you get the general idea.  Danean was thrilled with her gift, and it makes me so happy thinking about her driving around town, ministering to her family with her handy-dandy kit at her side.

Do you know someone who needs a box?  It's a blast putting it together and giving it away. :)

What Are You Waiting For?

Today I read the following article.  It blew me away.  I wish I had read it years ago as a single woman.  But, it is helpful to this married woman's heart, because it's principles are biblical and universal. 

What are you waiting for?  Waiting isn't just for single women.  I've spent many a day waiting for . . .

• school to start/end
• my prince charming to come on the scene
• my wedding day to arrive
• babies to spring forth
• doctors and lab results
• pain to subside following miscarriage
• my husband to get better
• a positive preganancy test
• sick children to get better
• sons to give their hearts to Jesus
• God to open the eyes of friends who are spiritually blind
• God to reveal His will for the next step of my mission

During those waiting times I am drawn to my knees in desperation.  And there I find Him, ever patient, ever sure.  A painful lonely place is suddenly warmed by His light and love.  I am no longer alone in my waiting places.  And you don't have to be alone in yours either.

"I just didn’t want to wait anymore – didn’t want to live like I was waiting on anyone to get here.  I already have Him … and He is everything."  - Grace

Click the following link to drink more in . . .

I Don't Wait Anymore

 "Lead me in Your truth and teach me, For You are the God of my salvation; On You I wait all the day."
Psalm 25:5

"Wait on the Lord;
Be of good courage,
And He shall strengthen your heart;
Wait, I say, on the Lord!"

Psalm 27:14

"For evildoers shall be cut off; But those who wait on the LORD, They shall inherit the earth." Psalm 37:9

"Truly my soul silently waits for God;
From Him comes my salvation."
Psalm 62:1

 

"For since the beginning of the world men have not heard nor perceived by the ear, nor has the eye seen any God besides You, Who acts for the one who waits for Him."
Isaiah 64:4

 

"Therefore the LORD will wait, that He may be gracious to you; And therefore He will be exalted, that He may have mercy on you.  For the LORD is a God of justice; Blessed are all those who wait for Him." Isaiah 30:18

"But those who wait on the LORD shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk and not faint."  Isaiah 40:31

"It is good that one should hope and wait quietly, for the salvation of the LORD."  Lamentations 3:26

 

God of Mountains Topples Walls of Fear

 

"I will lift up my eyes to the hills— from whence comes my help? My help comes from the Lord, Who made heaven and earth." Psalm 121:1

From the breathtaking mountains of Colorado . . . back down to the foothills of Mount Neverest (laundry).  I didn't want to come home.  I wanted to stay there and stare at God's art work all day, every day!



What did I come home to, besides lots of dirty clothes?  A busy autumn schedule, a spiritual battle, and a wall of fear . . . it looms over me. 

• How am I going to ____? 


• What if ____ happens? 


• I don't feel good about ____.   


• Am I going to be able to be ____? 


• Am I ever going to be content with an imperfect life and house?  


• What about my friend's hurts? 


• What if ____ happens to my family?


• What if my dreams for Women On God's Mission are too big? 


• What if I've bitten off too much with my schedule?


• How can I continue to make the 45 minute commute to church 2-3 times per week? 


• Do my goals match God's plans for me? 

Fears like a dripping faucet nag at my heart - that loved ones who do not believe in Jesus, as the Way the Truth and the Life, will lose their opportunity with God. And fears for precious friends facing persecution around the world . . . on and on, the walls of fear could rival the Wall of China.



Thankfully, peace is not inextricably connected with time, place, vacation, God's beautiful creation, nor with anything I do or don't do! C.S. Lewis said, "God cannot give us a happiness and peace apart from Himself, because it is not there.  There is no such thing."  Where God is, there is peace.  Even in the midst of hectic real life!  I thank God that He uses these fears to draw me to Himself.  If I had no fear, there would be no need for God. 

"For ye have not received the spirit of bondage again to fear; but ye have received the Spirit of adoption, whereby we cry, Abba, Father."

Romans 8:15

If I am carrying fears around, I am accepting a "gift" from the father of lies, Satan.  After I lift off the enticing wrapper I drag around a back-breaking, heart-wrenching, rash inducing time bomb.  Through me Satan disrespectfully flaunts a small victory in the face of his and my Creator God, while he designs to do everything he can to destroy me, my family, and any godly influence from my life!  In contrast, our wonderful God sweetly yet powerfully assures, "I have it all under control."  He calms the storms around me, giving me freedom to breathe, freedom to sleep sweetly, and the assurance that He is working on ___ and ___.  God understands!  God cares! 



Are you in a fearful place?  Surgery is scheduled, your biological clock is ticking, you lost your job, your baby has cancer, loved ones are moving away, your house won't sell, your husband is being called up for another tour of duty, you don't know if you are on your way to heaven when you die (see above under Lovely Links to get help), your very life is at stake in a land where there is no freedom of religion . . . whatever it is, Satan would love to tie us up in ropes of fear - he wants to snuff out all of the big dreams that come with following a big God!



Like my Indonesian sister in Christ told me tonight, "I just need to meditate more on His word and draw myself even closer to Him. This cloud of uncertainty and doubt has been a thorn I need to get rid of FAST!" 



And when we are too weak to cast off our fears, He can and He will!  Will you kneel with me right now and commit our fears to God?  He has all the answers we need.  He is the answer.  Pray and watch the walls topple.

"Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God.  I will strengthen you, yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.’" Isaiah 41:10

Click here to read more verses about God's answers to our fears

Come In For Coffee and a Testimony

Welcome to my home!  Pull up a chair - can I get you something to drink?  I have coffee, tea, and lemonade.  How are you today?  It is a lovely sunny day here, with pleasant breezes carrying a hint of autumn.  Early this morning my boys and I enjoyed peeking out our window to watch a little woodpecker pecking away on our playhouse out back.  I've spent all morning cleaning out a closet full of clothes my boys have grown out of.  I look forward to sharing them with my friends who have tiny boys. Thanks for coming by!  It's a good excuse for a relaxing break. :)



When I first sensed God directing me to create Women On God's Mission, I knew the most important thing to share right away was my salvation testimony - how God has forgiven me through Jesus' sacrifice in my place.  My life isn't about me - it's about everything God has done for me, in me, and (when I live surrendered to Him) through me.   HE is my mission.  And HE daily gives me a mission to serve Him by serving others. 



[If you are interested in reading my salvation testimony, it is listed under the topics list (to your left) under "My Testimony."  If you are wondering what a testimony is, see *below.]



Has God been working in your life, or are you haunted with doubts and fears about your future?  If you are unsure where you stand with God, you can find the answers you've been hoping for!  A great place to begin is by clicking on the link below. 

What does God have to do with me?

 

" . . . if you confess with your mouth the Lord Jesus and believe in your heart that God has raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart one believes unto righteousness, and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation." Romans 10:9-10

If you believe in Jesus, God's living Word, and confess Him as your Savior, would you please share?   May I refill your cup?   How about an ooey, gooey, low-cal muffin to go with your drink? :) I am eagerly awaiting your testimony. 



If you are unsure how to share your testimony, see **below.  I realize many testimonies are lengthy, so if you just want to share a favorite verse and when/where you chose to answer God's call, that will be perfectly fine. If you've never left a comment before, it's simple. Just go down to the bottom of this post and click on "comments." You can leave one anonymously if you don't want anyone to know your name. 



Looking forward to hearing how God wooed you to Himself. Your testimony will be an encouragement to me and all our sisters around the world. Thank you for visiting today! :)

"But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts, and always be ready to give a defense to everyone who asks you a reason for the hope that is in you, with meekness and fear;" I Peter 3:15

 

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*What is a testimony? The first thing I think of when I hear the word testimony is a person who witnessed a car accident telling the policeman or judge what the saw, heard, smelled, felt - anything he can remember about what he experienced at the time of the collision. Testimony is described by www.dictionary.com as evidence in support of a fact or statement; proof; a declaration or profession, as of faith." So, it is telling others what you have seen and heard about God, and what you believe about Him - what He means to you and what He has done in your life. Another equally good term would be confession, as in a confession of faith.



**Have you ever been asked to share your salvation testimony in front of a group of people? Maybe you just want to tell your new roommate what God has done for you, but you don't know where to begin. Are you scared? It takes preparation and practice, but soon you will feel comfortable and anticipate chances to tell your story. Click below to find some excellent helpful hints for how to prepare to share.

Learn how to give your testimony to a friend, a stranger, or to an entire group!

Just God and Me

"Your words were found, and I ate them, And Your word was to me the joy and rejoicing of my heart; For I am called by Your name, O LORD God of hosts." Jeremiah 15:16

On Saturday I listened to an inspiring Christian woman speaking about godly priorities while cleaning my room.  Later that same day, while I was folding underwear and sorting socks, I heard another famous woman interviewed on a highly revered Christian website.  As her voice streamed through my laptop, my hopes for a meaty message quickly faded.  I was left feeling parched.  Yes, she mentioned God, spoke about prayer as well as other true and good things, but never communicated God's own words.  Most of her words were about her. 



More than any other time in human history, we have countless opportunities to hear and learn from God's Word: radio, television, internet, books, church, CDs, Sunday school, small groups, conferences, magazines, DVDs, blogs, YouTube, email, Facebook, etc.  Certainly there are messages and interviews worth hearing that point us to God.  It takes some work, but we can wade through fluff and find solid biblical teaching.



My concern, as I get to know myself better and listen to others around me, is that we too easily depend on the testimonies of other humans.  Before realizing it, my own quality time with God slips away.  Unless the words of others springboard me toward further personal study in my Bible, munching from the crumbs of other people's spiritual meals soon leaves me depleted, hungry. 

"And Jesus said to them, 'I am the bread of life. He who comes to Me shall never hunger, and he who believes in Me shall never thirst.'" John 6:35

If I allow this spiritual malnutrition to continue, my starved self turns to my husband and children, friends and pastor, to feed me, to fill me.  I open my refrigerator, go shopping, listen to music.  My emptiness echoes in my soul, and when women come to me for counsel I give them my helpful opinions and good ideas instead of God's.  At times my family feels the brunt of my ugliness.  I've allowed the potential fruit of the Spirit to wilt and rot.  Then finally, after the damage has been done, I end up where I should've been in the beginning: on my knees and in His Word.

Do you have a daily quiet time with God alone?  I understand, it can feel nearly impossible at times with the busyness of life.  Do you enjoy listening to Christian radio but sometimes let that take place of your quiet time?  What about church - do you tank up on the sermon and small group lesson, hoping it will carry you through your stressful week? 



Dear sister, we need "just God and me" time.  If it means getting up earlier, staying up later, shutting down the computer, getting away from the house for awhile, turning on a good video for our kids, declining an invitation from a friend, hiring a baby sitter . . . we will only be PEACEFUL and USEFUL when we spend time with God.  Alone.

"His (her!) delight is in the law of the Lord, and in His law he (she!) meditates day and night.  He (she!) shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that brings forth its fruit in its season, whose leaf also shall not wither; and whatever he (she!) does shall prosper." Psalm 1:2-3

Stay tuned for ideas to help you develop a quality daily meeting with God.



Special thanks to The Narrow Gate for the picture above.

Martha To the Max Winners, and . . .

Good morning!  :)  It was a blessing to read all the comments.  I was encouraged by your heart for God and your love for your families - for desiring to honor God in every mission He has entrusted to you!  Thank you to everyone who participated in WOGM's first free book giveaway.

The book up for grabs is one my favorites (sorry, the picture is lying - you can't click on it to look inside) :) . . .

Just a few moments ago, my two boys each drew one name out of a "hat" to pick our winners.  Josh is walking around the house saying, "I'm a winner!"  Caleb is following him saying, "No you're not!"  (I don't think they quite get it. :))

 

Drum roll, please . . .

Congratulations, Elizabeth! :)  Congratulations, KLWalt! :)  Please email me your address (see below), and I will have Martha To the Max sent your way!  Enjoy! :)   Thank you to everyone for participating and for sharing your God-given mission with us.  Please stay tuned for our next free book giveaway.  And please consider joining WOGM as a regular follower, so you won't miss any of the encouragement and free resources.

Speaking of FREE, I praise the Lord that He is working out the details for me to be able to provide

free downloadable Bible studies! 

For years my husband and I have prayed about making study tools available, to make it easy for women on God's mission worldwide to dig into God's precious Word.  We have maximum peace, joy and strength when we focus on God.  "So then faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God" (Romans 10:17).  What our families and neighbors need most is for us to be godly women.  We become more like Him when we spend time with Him!

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  In the near future, look for simple yet deep study worksheets which should be useful in every culture, for one or one hundred!  
  
  


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  My goal is to begin by providing two per month (which could be used for two or four studies). 
  
  


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  Each study will be protected by copyright laws under my name (no changes allowed in my name by other parties).
  
  


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  You will be allowed to make minor adjustments during study time as necessary to fit your group needs. 
  
  

Interest has been shown by women on God's mission overseas, as well as sisters in the USA.  I am presently preparing a Bible study about contentment (God is teaching me a lot about this right now!), and have countless other ideas in mind. 

Now is your opportunity to voice requests.  If this resource interests you, please leave a comment to let me know what subjects/series you would like to see.  I cannot promise you that I will use every idea you give, but I will prayerfully consider it.  I prefer looking long-term at an ongoing study by topic or scripture passage. 

For as long as possible all Bible studies will be free.  All I ask it that you pray for me for wisdom as I write, and please tell all your friends about Women On God's Mission.

Praying now for you in your walk with God.  Be encouraged on God's mission for you today! :)

"Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope by the power of the Holy Spirit." Romans 15:13

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It's Your Turn!

Statistics show that the top 10 countries with people who enjoy reading Women On God's Mission are the following (in this order):

• USA


• Russia


• Canada


• Germany


• Netherlands


• South Korea


• United Kingdom


• Brazil


• Philippines


• Australia

Oh how I wish I could meet each one of you!  I hope I am going to get to know a few of my readers this weekend, because

Now it's YOUR turn!  :) 

And I am going to be giving away

Two free books!! 

I would like to send two of my fellow women on God's mission a copy of one of my favorite books: Martha To the Max .  To be eligible for this drawing, share a comment on my blog this weekend.  Introduce yourself and tell what country you live in.  You may use your initials instead of your entire name, if you wish.  Also, please share something about yourself - about the mission God has given to you right now. On Monday morning I will draw two names and announce the winners. 

If you have time, I highly recommend this message by Barbara Rainey.  I am listening to it right now as I clean my house . . . Three Essentials For the Married Woman.  One thing that has stood out so far is:  "Wimpy theology makes wimpy women!" - John Piper . . . the importance of knowing God personally - studying God's Word for ourselves and not just reading what others have learned and written about Him!



Have a great day, and I look forward to hearing from you!

My husband Tim and me - taken by our son at the Creation Museum in July

Coming Soon!

After much prayer and consideration, with the support of my husband and praying friends, I am excited to announce that God is opening doors, and Women on God's Mission is moving forward!  By faith I accept the challenge and take God's hand as He leads.



In the past several months there has been considerable evidence that this ministry is encouraging women around the world.  I do not praise myself - it's all about God and what He can do!  Hallelujah!



I have considered spending more time submitting articles to magazines.  God has blessed, with an article about hosting exchange students coming out in the near future.  However, I sense that God is presently leading me to invest most of my time in cultivating the current global ministry with women here at W.O.G.M.  As long as God allows me I will continue this Women On God's Mission blog, while praying for you, my dear sisters, around the world.



Upcoming items to look forward to . . .

1. Several of my sisters in Christ around the world have joyfully agreed to share testimony about what it is like to be a follower of Christ where they live. For some women, their mission for God must be carefully guarded as they do not have the freedoms we enjoy here in the USA.  Through the fires of uncertainly and unrest their faith has been made stronger.  I have been greatly blessed by their trust in God, and I know you will be blessed as well.  We can learn from them, as we are not guaranteed of the continuation of our freedom to openly live as women on God's mission.


2. Interviews from the USA are coming as well!  Look to learn more about your sisters who are pastor's wives, retired missionaries, single moms, single business women, and experienced women of God who now have the privilege to add "Grandma" to their mission for God.  There is so much we can learn from what God has taught our fellow W.O.G.M. in the USA.


3. Home and family management tips are coming in the articles P.R.A.Y. My Way Through the Day plan, and Ideas For a Successful Family Schedule.


4. In September I will begin regular drawings for free books.  Stay tuned for more info.


5. Ladies retreat ideas


6. I am extremely blessed by my friends on Facebook.  They sharpen me!  We sharpen one another by discussing Scripture and how it applies to daily life.  I will continue to share tidbits from these conversations which I think may interest and benefit you.


7. Biblical teaching about the importance of modern day Sabbath, and how we busy women can follow God's example to rest


8. Free downloadable Bible studies


9. And, Lord willing, more!

This past weekend we had our annual International Giveaway at our church (see post from Saturday).  It was an incredible day with 213 students attending from 23 different countries!  Sunday afternoon our pastor shared with us at our prayer meeting that we must not be content with where we are spiritually.  We could have been tempted to brag about the good work we had done, but how foolish would that be.  It would be like praising a flower for growing itself.  God will help us grow and provide the strength and wisdom to continue the mission He has given us to do.

"Being confident of this very thing, that He who has begun a good work in you will complete it until the day of Jesus Christ; " Philippians 1:6

Please feel free to leave a comment if you would like to make a suggestion for upcoming events here at W.O.G.M.  Have a great day!

Good Soil Evangelism Overview

Last weekend I was privileged to take part in a two day Good Soil Evangelism training. I was more than excited for this opportunity to refine my toolbox as I seek to share God's love with people.



I grew up in a Christian home, a Bible teaching church, a Christian school, and I attended two Bible colleges.  Having heard a lot already, I didn't know what to expect.  I was happily surprised to be challenged in my thinking in the two days I spent with missionary Ann D.  The training I received made me stop and reconsider my audience and how better to communicate with them.



Here are a few points that stood out to me:



1.  Most of us are familiar with the Romans Road.  Where does it usually begin?  Romans 3:23 - "For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God."  What is that presuming?  That my audience understands "sin" and "falling short," as well as their belief in God's existance.  Three chapters precede chapter three verse twenty-three, building a foundation to prepare the hearer to learn he is a sinner in need.  So, why do we usually start with Romans 3:23?  It may be perfect for someone with a Bible background, but this is becoming less and less common. 



2.  What about the question, "If you were to die today and stand before God, why should He let you into heaven?"  This presumes people believe in God, heaven and hell.  Again, to the typical adult, confusing.



3.  Sin.  Most people don't know what it is. We laughingly discussed "sinfully delicious desserts" as sadly the most common use of the word "sin" in our society.  Or they may think of Bible beaters - people who condemn others with prideful self-absorbtion, yelling and pulpit pounding.



4.  They presented a useful overview to help us understand where people are spiritually and where to being helping them in their relationship with God.  Evangelism-Discipleship Scale



5.  We studied John 1 (where I have normally suggested people begin reading their Bible) from the eyes of someone with no knowledge of the Old Testament.  Shocking.



6.  We watched the following video about the Mauk Tribe of Papua New Guinea.  They had never heard of Jesus; they didn't even know where they were in the world.  A missionary couple, who was discouraged by most because of their age, family size, and health problems, felt called to to PNG to share the truth.  I learned a lot from how they presented the Bible to this people which had no background in God's Word.  All of us sat their and wept, realizing how blessed we are to know God's Word!

7.  Also available is a book to help new believers:  The Way To Joy

Both The Story of Hope and The Way To Joy are available in several other languages.  This program isn't just another Evangelism Explosion.  It would be extremely beneficial in any church or small group in teaching Biblical evangelism.  Teacher instruction manuals are downloadable for free on their website.  I highly recommend Good Soil Evangelism. Click here to find out more:  Good Soil Evangelism

International Giveaway 2012

                                 

Imagine moving to a different country and all you have is what is in your suitcase. Incoming students from around the world have little with which to set up a new household. We want to help these students in their time of need and let them know they have friends here in the USA! We count it a privilege to welcome students, not just with our words, but also with our actions.

It is undoubtedly one of my favorite days of the year.  Every August our church invites all new international students to come chose from a variety of household goods and furniture to set up their new American homes.

Since this is our eleventh year reaching out to students in this way, we have learned a lot about organizing and working together.  There was a spirit of calm and joy amongst the workers, which included several church members and many from nearby churches.  At the staff meeting beforehand, our youth pastor set the tone for the day.  He encouraged us to keep our eyes on Jesus and the Gospel.  If we keep our eyes on Him and what He's done for us, it's hard to be afraid of or intimidated by people.  By 1:30 the auditorium was packed, 213 students in all, with several students left standing.  There were 23 countries represented:

• Brazil


• Canada


• China


• Columbia


• Costa Rica


• Dominican Republic


• Eritrea


• India


• Iran


• Ireland


• Jamaica


• Japan


• Kenya


• Korea


• Nepal


• Philippines


• Romania


• Singapore


• Slovenia


• Sudan


• Taiwan


• Togo


• Venezuela

 

I met people from Sudan, Romania, China, Taiwan, Togo, and Eritrea.  A Romania girl seemed flustered as she waited for her ride home.  When I asked if I could help her, she said she wanted to say thank you to everyone, but she didn't know how she could do so.  Several students were speechless, never having witnessed something like this before. 

We are not doing this because we are nice people.  God has given so much to us, so we are thrilled to share God's blessings with others.  It's all about God working through us, and we pray that He shines through, so they see Him, not us!

For God so loved the world that He GAVE His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. John 3:16

Students are given the opportunity to sign up for English classes, conversational English partners, Bible studies, and they can request transportation to church services and activities.  Following the Giveaway, our assistant pastor informed us that 142 students requested a conversational English partner.  The Giveaway is just the beginning, and we rely on God to provide time and energy for our church members to develop friendships with all of the students opening their hearts to us. 

It is so exciting to see students who were new to our church a year or two ago now welcoming new students.  One of our Campus Bible Fellowship missionaries now has the privilege to minister to the second generation, children of students she worked with years ago.

One woman took me aside and confided, "I bought a Bible."  After she described it, with her eyes sparkling, I gave her my name and told her that I would love to be her conversational English partner.  I am so looking forward to getting to know this beautiful young woman, as well as others I met today.

We are extremely blessed by the gifts of God and want to share them with others!  It's all because of Jesus.

Cry Out to God

"Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus." Phil. 3:13-14

This morning I had a rare opportunity to read, pray and talk to God alone at a park.  A sweet friend had invited my boys over, and I savored every moment of God and me time.



I've felt drained lately, more so than usual.  The past two years, around this time, we were preparing for our exchange student daughters to come.  From the moment their planes touched down, we were off and running, seemingly non-stop, for two 10+ month intervals.

In June with my Ghanian daughter Ama, just a few days before she left

After two action-packed years, I feel my body and emotions wavering between shock and recovery mode.  And I am grateful for the good memories as I put my feet up, this time blissfully uninvolved with the local high school schedule.  Although, there is a tinge of boredom in the air . . . how do we go back to "normal" after ultra-activity?



God is using this time in my life to help me reevaluate.  As I was sitting at the park enjoying the amazing book Even God Rested: Why It's Okay For Women to Slow Down by Kim Thomas, I was curious when my heart was particularly alert during the chapter about anger.  I listened for God's Spirit to speak to me as I reviewed those who have wronged or misunderstood me: ____ = forgiven, ____= forgiven, and down the list I went.  Then a most unexpected turn of events - I sensed God was showing me that I had not forgiven myself!  And all this time I have been stewing about those other people. 



"Forgive yourself" possibly sounds like a talk-show diagnosis.  Challenged by a wise friend who asked me the biblical basis for this, perhaps it would be better to say I accept God's forgiveness and no longer condemn myself.  In case you are interested, here are some thoughts we discussed:

• Colossians 3:13 - "Forbearing one another, and forgiving one another, if any man have a quarrel against any: even as Christ forgave you, so also do ye," . . . The Greek root word "heautou" (one another) refers not only to others, but also to ourselves.


• Berating myself for past failures and sins has only prevented me from living in God's forgiveness/being fully who God wants me to be. Living spiritually is seeing myself through God's eyes: Sinful, yet FORGIVEN. Therefore, it is my own pride and stubbornness not likewise to forgive what God has already forgiven.  


• Hebrews 9:14 - "...how much more shall the blood of Christ, who through the eternal Spirit offered Himself without spot to God, cleanse your conscience from dead works to serve the living God?" 


• Ephesians 4:32 - "And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you."  Even though I am a sinner, God gives me the choice to forgive or not forgive other sinners.  Do you think Saul/Paul needed to stand with God forgiving himself for his violence against his new brothers and sisters in Christ? At least he probably had to remind himself, when nightmares plagued his conscience, "I stand forgiven in Christ, therefore I shall not live in the past, condemning myself."  I have the privilege of saying with Christ, "Sara, you are forgiven ... go on in God's grace." 


• Romans 8:1,33 - "There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit . . . who shall bring a charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies."  GOD justifies - I cannot justify myself nor anyone.  Accepting His full and free forgiveness - it would be disrespectful of His sacrifice to continue to condemn my forgiven self. 


• In John 8:9-12 Jesus tells the woman caught in adultery that He nor any other man condemns her, and then a very important "Go and sin no more."  Why?  "Then spake Jesus again unto them, saying, I am the light of the world: he that followeth me shall not walk in darkness, but shall have the light of life."

It seems to me that holding onto the guilt is connected with pride . . . as if something I can DO will justify myself.  I am thankful that I do not have gigantic baggage - God protected me greatly.  And some of the things I have struggled with are sins of omission or the sad happenstance of not knowing that someone I love was being abused.  "If only I had known, I would've helped them!!" 



Another part is accepting God's sovereignty.  I am just not that big!  He works through our sins and mistakes for good in our lives and in the lives of others - He breathes life into dust and brings the dead to life.  Hallelujah!   



Tonight, while all this was soaking in, and right after I shared with Tim the release God gave me today, I was contacted by one of the people on my forgiven list.  It was like a bright cherry on top of a sundae, reminding me that God can open channels which once seemed impenetrable. Thank You, God, for working faithfully and patiently with Your children!



If you are in a place of exhaustion, confusion, or just plain needing a recharge, I highly recommend Kim's book.  And as soon as you can, cry out to God and go to a quiet place, prepared to listen to Him.  What you think may be the reason for your struggle may be completely opposite of what God is trying to teach you.



I'd like to close with something my wonderful friend Kay gave me yesterday: "Psalm 23:2. He doesn't LET us lie down in green pastures because we usually don't do that of our free will (we're too busy). So He makes us lie down. So thankful He does that for us. THEN, after He does that, He leads us to the quiet water and THEN He refreshes our soul. "

Get out of the way!

Twelve years ago I was privileged to be a preschool teacher in Poulsbo, Washington.  I loved my students!  I remember one day when a new fellow joined our class.  The poor little man had major first day jitters and insecurities.  Not even music and story time could cheer him up.  He continued in distress until . . . I got up and moved.  Behind me on the wall was a picture of Jesus (similar to the image above).   After Kevin saw the picture of Jesus, his entire demeanor changed!  As I watched him smile, I could picture a party going on inside his brain - "This is a Jesus place!  I'm going to be okay!"  From then on, he seemed to feel at home.



While studying John 3:27-33 (*context below) today, I was challenged to remember that I am privileged to point people to Jesus.  Like John the Baptist, I have the opportunity to tell others, "It's all about Him!"

"He must increase, but I must decrease." John 3:30  

This passage of Scripture reminds me:

I must diminish!

The good things you see in my life are only because of Jesus.  I am only special because God made me in His image, God in the flesh died to pay my sin debt, and I am chosen by Him to know and serve Him.  Why should my screen time only point people to Him?  Because . . .

1.  I have nothing except for what has been given to me by God (27). No room to brag!

2.  I am not God (28).  It seems obvious, but I find myself idiotically trying to play God in my life.

3.  I have been sent by God (28).  On His mission, not mine.  He uses the weak things of this world! (I Corinthians 1:27)

4.  I am His bride (29).  Do I act like a bride in love, preparing for our day?  Do I glow and tell everyone about the One I love (Who first loved me - I John 4:19)?

5.  The sound of his voice gives great joy - in Him my joy is fulfilled (29).  So, why do I go elsewhere for my joy?  Rejoice in the joy Giver!  And find my fulfillment in Him alone.  Not in my accomplishments!  Not in my list of souls won!  Not in my one-upping a sister with whom I feel a pull of competition in church leadership.  No!!!

He must become greater!

Jesus IS the greatest - this verse is saying that He must take center stage and be given complete dominion in our lives.  Why?  Because (again, taken from John 3) . . .



1.  He is the Giver (27).  All gifts are from God!  Isn't His signature verse John 3:16?  And, don't forget Romans 8:32!  With His strength, I can appreciate His gifts and become a selfless giver.

2.  He is the Sender (28).  Matthew 28:18-20.  I am on a mission!  I should be grateful - I get to serve the King of Kings!

3.  He is the Christ (28).  Anointed One, appointed by God.  Jesus is God in the flesh, no matter what other people say.

4.  Jesus and I have extremely different roles.  He is transforming me into His image while I am but a speck in the shadow of the Almighty.  That means I must continue to reverence and obey Him.  Humble myself.

5.  He is the bridegroom (29).  He loves me.  He chose me.  I am His precious bride.  He is worthy of my adoration!

6.  He is above all (27-28, 29-31). So, doesn't He deserve my complete allegiance?!  I cannot even imagine the ridiculous spectacle of a termite bragging about his strength next to a tyrannosaurus rex dinosaur.  God and me?  The difference is even greater!



HE is above all!

He IS above all!

He is ABOVE all!

He is above ALL!



7.  Jesus is evidence that God, and what He says in the Bible, is true (33).  Divine and sent by God, Jesus gives a living, breathing view of God.

8.  He has something to say that is worth hearing (32).  Am I listening?



We have the privilege of pointing people to Jesus.  Let's get out of the way so people can see the source of hope and true joy!



Practically Speaking: How To Point Others to Jesus



Family:

• Above all, your family needs for you to be godly.  When you are right with God, God is able to shine through you!


• Talk about God to your children, every day of the week. 


• Begin the day with a verse and prayer. 


• In a moment of frustration, let them hear you pray to God for help and strength. 


• Put a little love note on their pillow that includes a Bible verse telling about Jesus' love for them. 


• If unsaved family mock or accuse you, be like Jesus to them, keeping silent and taking it graciously. 


• Let them hear you pray for them out loud.


• Be excited about God!


• Teach them about good manners - the purpose of which is not to make people think they great, but it is an opportunity to show people the love of Jesus.


• Talk about how great God is and show your children how you can together enjoy praising God in song and service. 


• Praise them for their accomplishments, then add, "God is so good to have given you such a special talent to use for His glory!"

Neighbors:

• Take baked goodies to them, just because.  Put a little note on the treat, including a simple Bible verse, that says you are thankful God allowed you to be neighbors. 


• Be the first one to take a meal to a new mom, a newcomer to the neighborhood, or a grieving family.  Include a winsome tract telling about God's love and hope. 


• Don't flaunt your beliefs - have an attitude of kindness and humility. 


• Don't be afraid to show them you can have fun. 


• Take care of your yard.  This one is hard to keep up with (we know)!  But it is important to respect our neighborhood by taking responsibility - this will help people to view Christ in a positive light. Think of your house as God's embassy in your neighborhood!


• If you borrow something, return it as soon as possible. 


• Don't keep a perfect home - let people see that you are real - someone they can relate to.  People feel more comfortable in a home that isn't spotless.


• How you dress matters.  Incorporating Biblical principles of modesty, be approachable in the way you dress - neither slovenly, goody-two-shoes, nor Hollywoodish.  They are more apt to listen if your appearance doesn't distract from your message.

Friends:

• Don't gossip. 


• Don't control the conversation, but try to guide it toward godly ideas.


• Offer to pray for and with your friend.


• Share what God is teaching you and ask her what God is teaching her.


• Ask how you can help her in her Christian walk.


• Ask for accountability - when she is holding you accountable, she will more likely seek to be right with God herself.


• Give gifts that will remind her of God: perpetual calendar with verses in it, a Bible verse magnet or picture, a favorite music or speaker on CD.


• After she sings or plays the piano, don't say, "You're awesome!"  Instead say something like, "Your song blessed my heart today.  I am so thankful you are using your talents for God's glory!"


• Send an e-mail saying you are praying for her today.


• Share what God is doing in your life on Facebook.  Don't be afraid to admit your struggles, but try not to complain.  Verbalizing what is true, even online, can help you and your friends focus on the One Who holds all the answers.

Strangers:

• Smile and say hello. 


• When waiting in line or while your kids are playing together at the park, try to find common ground by asking about their interests. 


• Pray for an opportunity to share Christ, but be sensitive to His leading.  Being too bold can give people a negative stereotypical view of your Christianity. 


• Invite them over for a play date or for supper. 


• Always carry a quality tract with you to give them some reading material later on. Have your e-mail address or phone number on the back in case they have questions.

"I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing." John 15:5

*27 -John answered and said, "A man can receive nothing unless it has been given to him from heaven.   

28 - You yourselves bear me witness, that I said, 'I am not the Christ,' but, 'I have been sent before Him.'  

29 - He who has the bride is the bridegroom; but the friend of the bridegroom, who stands and hears him, rejoices greatly because of the bridegroom's voice. Therefore this joy of mine is fulfilled.  

30 - He must increase, but I must decrease.  

31 - He who comes from above is above all; he who is of the earth is earthly and speaks of the earth. He who comes from heaven is above all.  

32 - And what He has seen and heard, that He testifies; and no one receives His testimony.  

33 - He who has received His testimony has certified that God is true." 

- John 3:27-33

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I Can't Believe It's Over!

We have one day left with our daughter Ama.  She leaves us on Tuesday . . . I can't believe the year is over!



Ama isn't a blood relative, but she has has lived with us for over ten months.  She's seen us at our best and our worst!  Awhile back, when Josh asked if she was ever a baby in my tummy, I replied, "No, she is the daughter of my heart."  Both she and Amira, who lived with us last school year, are so dear to me.  I am blessed to be their American mom! 



[Ama, my fellow woman on God's mission just came into the kitchen looking for her camera. "The writing juices are flowing," she observed, as she breezed past me.  After she explained her mission and we both said a prayer, she left to continue searching in her room.  I'm really going to miss praying with her.]



There were moments this past year when Ama and I felt like giving up.  But, God didn't let us.  He faithfully gave us the strength we needed to grow through the challenges, produce fruit for His glory, and to end the year well.  He has given us the victory!



Ama will adjust quickly to her culture, but she will always be part of our family.  And I know that if I ever have the opportunity to visit Ghana (and I'm fully planning to go, if God and Tim will allow me!), I will find that I have a home and family there as well.



As we finish this two year journey of hosting exchange students, I am filled to overflowing with ...

• memories, LOTS of memories


• humble thankfulness for the lessons I've learned


• gratitude to God for His faithfulness 


• joy when I remember the consistent encouragement, love, and prayers of friends and family


• the fruit and growth God has cultivated in my life through amazing experiences


• the gift of love I've received from two beautiful young women who are now permanently part of my heart and life

After the dust settles, I will tell you more about hosting exchange students; I feel like I could write a book!  For now, please reflect with me with thanksgiving to God for all that He has done!  Ama and I pray that God will continue to work in and through us as we part ways.  Ama, my precious sister in Christ, has already enthusiastically agreed to be the Representative and Coordinator for the African Branch of Women On God's Mission! :) 

"Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen."  Ephesians 3:20-21

Father's Day Reflections

Tonight my breath caught in my throat as I noticed a bright rainbow just out my back door.  It was positively glowing!  I've never seen the violet ribbon so brilliant.  As it expanded into a double rainbow, I could hear my children ooo-ing and ahh-ing from their bedroom window, talking back and forth with their Daddy about what a rainbow means.  Hearkening back to our father in the faith Noah, God our Father keeps His promises, of course.

This spring my Dad designed a little

house for his grandsons.

Tim and our boys enjoyed helping out!



This Father's Day weekend I am eternally grateful to God for a Dad who loves Him and loves his family.  Some of my favorite memories with my Dad include: when we went camping, going to church, walking the mall and him stopping occasionally to buy me a rope of licorice, bike riding, eating mulberries, him teaching me how to drive a tractor on the farm, horseback riding, chuckwagons in Colorado, and the countless times he listened to me practice the piano, clapping after every song! 



And now I am blessed to be married to a man who is a good husband and a great father.  I am unspeakably thankful that my husband is someone I can respect and trust with my children.  He loves playing with them, listening to them, chasing and tickling, singing with them . . . my cup overflows.

I love this old picture of Tim

and the boys!



Maybe you feel that while others enjoy rainbow memories and relationships, yours have been or are stormy.  Perhaps your dad wasn't the loving kind.  Instead he wounded you and wrecked your childhood.  What pain and agony!  Perhaps you are single and longing for someone to build a family with, but God hasn't brought him along, yet.  I remember the ache.  Or, you may have seen your prince charming fall off his horse and land in the kingdom of another princess.  There is no one to love you or the children you had together, and your weary heart is broken.



While human beings fall short in sympathy, God understands what we think and feel.  When His children are hurting, He hurts, too.  And He is closer to us than breathing. Just like the rainbow I saw tonight which followed scary lightening and ominous clouds,  God will help us through the storms of life - He is the safe place of eternal love and forever rainbows.



The following verses are familiar to many of us, but let's take a few moments to soak in them once again.  Just like sinking our toes into a plush carpet, munching on a warm-from-the-oven chocolate chip cookie, coming home and smelling freshly baked bread . . . let's come home to our Father and bask in His love today.

Our Perfect Father 

"For as the heavens are high above the earth, so great is His mercy toward those who fear Him; as far as the east is from the west, so far has He removed our transgressions from us. As a father pities his children, so the Lord pities those who fear Him. For He knows our frame; He remembers that we are dust." Psalm 103:11-14



"For unto us a Child is born, unto us a Son is given; and the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace." Isaiah 9:6



"But now, O Lord, you are our Father; we are the clay, and You our potter; and all we are the work of Your hand." Isaiah 64:8



"... your Father knows the things you have need of before you ask Him." Matthew 6:8b



"Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.  For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father who is in heaven give good things to those who ask Him!" Matthew 7:7-8,11



"Therefore be merciful, just as your Father also is merciful." Luke 6:36



"For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, “Abba, Father." Romans 8:15 



"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God." 2 Corinthians 1:3-4



"I will be a Father to you, and you shall be My sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty." 2 Corinthians 6:18



"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ ..." Ephesians 1:3



"Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God!"  I John 3:1



"And we have seen and testify that the Father has sent the Son as Savior of the world." I John 4:14